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Sabbatical Coaching · The Breakthrough People

Come aside.
Your soul needs
a winter season.

Guided coaching for Christ-followers stepping into — or through — a sabbatical.

"He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul." — Psalm 23:2–3

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A Sacred Pause

You didn't fail.
You're fallow.

A field that has given much must be given space to recover. The farmer knows: rest is not idleness — it is the condition for the next season of fruit. A sabbatical is not a reward for surviving ministry or a sign of weakness. It is a rhythm built into creation itself, and into the very character of God.

Whether you've stepped away voluntarily — or been led there by exhaustion, transition, or disruption — you are in one of the most significant seasons of your life. The question is not whether to rest, but how to rest well.

Who Is This For

Christ-followers at every
stage of the journey

You don't need to have it figured out to begin. You just need to be willing to stop, look back, look within, and let God speak into what's next.

20s
Calling
Issues of direction and values. You're asking who you are and what you're meant to pursue. A sabbatical creates space to hear the answer.
30s
Clarifying
Deep in work, ministry, or family — you sense a need to step back and confirm your direction before pressing further.
40s–50s
Contribution
Issues of priorities and role. What should you be focusing on? What's your grid for yes and no? This is the mid-game — it shapes everything after.
60s+
Convergence
Issues of legacy and finishing well. What do you have left to offer, and to whom? A sabbatical at this stage can be the most clarifying season of all.

Two entry points — voluntary or involuntary — both equally valid, both equally sacred.

The Sabbatical Journey

Two tracks.
Three stages.
One direction.

Whether you stepped away by choice or by necessity, the path forward moves through the same three God-designed stages. Coaching meets you where you are on either track.

Come Aside: Two Tracks, Three Stages Two parallel tracks — voluntary and involuntary — both moving through Rest, Replenish, and Refocus toward clarity and direction. REST Phase 1 REPLENISH Phase 2 REFOCUS Phase 3 TRACK A Voluntary call 1 call 2 call 3 call 4 call 5 call 6 Let the field lie fallow Stop producing Decelerate & receive rest Family & physical renewal Mend and sharpen Spiritual direction Inner healing & debriefing Learning & mentoring Prepare for spring Review your timeline Calling / Contribution / Convergence Personal Development Plan TRACK B Involuntary Grieve the loss Process the disruption Stabilise physically Find safe voices Counselling & debriefing Begin rebuilding trust Reframe the story What is God saying? Renewed direction Both tracks arrive at the same destination: Clarity. Restoration. Direction. = coaching call (6 across the sabbatical) = your track through the season

The Three Stages

The farmer's winter

Each phase has its own character, its own gift, and its own work. The farmer does not rush from fallow soil straight to planting.

1
Phase One
Rest

The farmer rests the soil — letting the field lie fallow, making no demands of it. Phase one invites you to stop producing, stop performing, and discover who you are when you're not doing anything for anyone.

2
Phase Two
Replenish

The farmer mends tools and studies — what is broken is repaired; what is dull is sharpened. This phase addresses what ministry has worn down: your theology, your relationships, your sense of calling, your body.

3
Phase Three
Refocus

The farmer quietly plans the next season. Using your personal timeline, a coach walks alongside you to clarify your calling, sharpen your contribution, and prepare you to re-enter with intentionality.

What You Receive

Coaching that holds
the whole of you

Six coaching conversations, shaped around your unique story and the specific season you're in.

01
A Sabbatical Plan built around you

Not a template — a personalised plan structured around Rest, Replenish, and Refocus that reflects your actual needs, your wiring, and your season of life.

02
Six coaching conversations across the sabbatical

Two calls before you begin. Two during. Two as you prepare to re-enter. Each shaped to where you are — not a script, but a genuine conversation with a guide who has walked this road.

03
A review of your personal timeline

Your story holds the fingerprints of God's shaping work. Coaching includes a guided look back over your life — naming chapters, processing key moments, and surfacing what God has been forming in you.

04
Clarity around Calling, Contribution, or Convergence

Depending on your life stage, coaching helps you answer the right question for this season — direction and values, priorities and role, or legacy and finishing well.

05
A Sabbatical Closure Document

Before you re-enter, you'll capture what God has done — insights, lessons, renewed direction. Something to hold and return to, and something you can share with those who journeyed alongside you.

06
The Sabbatical Planner and Devotional

Two companion resources — a structured planning framework and a biblical devotional called The Winter Season — given to every coaching participant to prepare their heart before they plan.

A Word for the Journey

"A sabbatical is not a reward for surviving ministry. It is a rhythm built into creation itself — and into the very character of God."

— The Breakthrough People, The Winter Season Devotional

Before you plan a single activity or fill in a single box, your sabbatical needs something different: your heart prepared to receive what God has been waiting to say. That is why every coaching journey begins with the Devotional.

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Your Coaches

You won't walk
this season alone.

Joel and Grace Lam have guided leaders across cultures and life stages through seasons of transition, clarity, and renewal.

JL
Joel Lam
Founder · Leadership Development Coach

Joel is a certified leadership development coach trained under Dr. Terry Walling's Leader Breakthru framework and shaped by Dr. J. Robert Clinton's leadership emergence theory. He has walked alongside pastors, missionaries, executives, and everyday leaders navigating transition and calling at every stage of life.

GL
Grace Lam
Co-Founder · Life & Development Coach

Grace brings warmth, discernment, and depth to the coaching conversation. With extensive experience in member care and personal development, she is especially gifted at helping individuals name what is truly happening beneath the surface — and find language for what God is doing in the hard seasons.

"This process draws on over 40 years of leadership development research by Dr. J. Robert Clinton, and 30 years of Life and Leadership Coaching by Dr. Terry Walling. We are grateful to be stewards of this work in the hands of everyday leaders."

What Others Have Found

Voices from the winter season

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Your participant's words will appear here — their experience of the sabbatical coaching journey, in their own voice.

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A second voice from someone who has walked through rest, replenishment, and refocus with coaching support.

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A third perspective — perhaps from someone who entered the sabbatical involuntarily and found unexpected clarity.

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Your winter season
is waiting for you.

You don't need to have it figured out to reach out. Just tell us a little about where you are — and we'll take it from there.

Every sabbatical coaching journey begins with a no-commitment conversation to explore whether this is the right season and the right fit.

Reach Us Directly

hello@thebreakthroughpeople.com

+65-98264351 (Joel)

+65-96975399 (Grace)

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Tell us about your season

We'll respond within 2–3 business days. This begins a conversation, not a commitment.

Your message has been received.

Thank you for reaching out. Joel or Grace will be in touch within 2–3 business days to begin the conversation.

In the meantime, sit with this question from The Winter Season devotional: "What does your soil look like right now?"