Sabbatical Coaching · The Breakthrough People
Guided coaching for Christ-followers stepping into — or through — a sabbatical.
"He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul." — Psalm 23:2–3
A Sacred Pause
fallow
(adj.) land that has been ploughed but left unseeded;
a season of deliberate rest that prepares the soil for new growth.
A field that has given much must be given space to recover. The farmer knows: rest is not idleness — it is the condition for the next season of fruit. A sabbatical is not a reward for surviving ministry or a sign of weakness. It is a rhythm built into creation itself, and into the very character of God.
Whether you've stepped away voluntarily — or been led there by exhaustion, transition, or disruption — you are in one of the most significant seasons of your life. The question is not whether to rest, but how to rest well.
Understanding the Season
Many people sense they need one — but aren't quite sure what a sabbatical is, whether it applies to them, or how to make it count. Here's what you need to know.
The Word
It comes from Sabbath — the ancient rhythm of ceasing.
God rested on the seventh day — not because He was tired, but because rest is built into the design of creation. A sabbatical extends that principle: one season of stopping so the next season of fruitfulness is possible.
The Purpose
It is not a holiday. It is not a holiday. It is not a holiday.
A holiday refreshes you to keep doing what you were doing. A sabbatical gives you space to ask whether what you were doing is still what you should be doing — and who God is forming you to become.
The Length
Typically one month to one year, depending on your season.
There is no single right length. What matters is that it is long enough to truly rest, replenish, and refocus — and structured enough to make the time count. In practice, most people find their sabbatical falls somewhere between one month and one year. Coaching helps you discern what is right for you.
The Posture
Not avoidance — intentionality.
A sabbatical used to escape is just a longer version of burnout. A sabbatical entered with purpose — even if the purpose is simply to rest — moves you from idleness into growth. The difference is intention, and a plan.
Voluntary Sabbatical
You choose to step away — from a role, a season, a pace of life. Perhaps you've sensed for a while that you need to stop and seek God's face before pressing on.
Involuntary Sabbatical
Circumstances brought you here — illness, burnout, loss of role, relational breakdown, or a season of disruption. What felt like an ending can become a beginning.
Who Is This For
Three life stages. Three defining questions. One God who is at work in every season.
Two entry points — voluntary or involuntary — both equally valid, both equally sacred.
The Sabbatical Journey
Whether you stepped away by choice or by necessity, the path forward moves through the same three God-designed stages. Coaching meets you where you are on either track.
The Three Stages
Each phase has its own character, its own gift, and its own work. The farmer does not rush from fallow soil straight to planting.
The farmer rests the soil — letting the field lie fallow, making no demands of it. Phase one invites you to stop producing, stop performing, and discover who you are when you're not doing anything for anyone.
The farmer mends tools and studies — what is broken is repaired; what is dull is sharpened. This phase addresses what ministry has worn down: your theology, your relationships, your sense of calling, your body.
Included in Phase 2: A two-day Life Consultation — a focused personal process to gain clarity around Calling, Contribution, or Convergence at your life stage. Learn more ↓
The farmer quietly plans the next season. Using your personal timeline, a coach walks alongside you to clarify your calling, sharpen your contribution, and prepare you to re-enter with intentionality.
Included in Phase 2 · Replenish
At the heart of the Replenish phase sits a two-day personal consultation process — designed to give you increased perspective and clarity on your contribution, your calling, and the life God has uniquely shaped you to live.
What It Is
The Life Consultation is a structured two-day process that helps you make sense of your story — the chapters, the turning points, the threads God has been weaving — and translate that understanding into strategic clarity for what comes next.
It is especially relevant for men and women who want more than just success — who are seeking to make a unique and significant contribution to the expansion of Christ's Kingdom.
This process draws on over 40 years of leadership development research by Dr. J. Robert Clinton and 30 years of life and leadership coaching by Dr. Terry Walling, and is influenced by Tom Patterson's life planning process.
You Will Walk Away With
Crucial lessons from your life turning points
What God has been forming in you through every season.
Greater clarity of identity — who you are
Your values, wiring, and the unique way God has made you.
Clarity on Calling, Contribution, or Convergence
The right question for your life stage — answered with depth.
A first look at future direction and implications
Where God seems to be leading — and what that means practically.
A 100-Day Plan to move forward
Concrete, focused next steps so the clarity becomes action.
"Setting you free to live the life God has shaped you to live — the life you were meant to live."
The Life Consultation · Joel & Grace Lam, Facilitators
What You Receive
Your sabbatical journey is supported by two distinct offerings — four coaching calls that keep you accountable and on track, and a two-day Life Consultation embedded in Phase 2 that takes you deeper.
Tier 1
Four coaching conversations placed at key moments across your sabbatical — keeping you accountable to your plan, helping you process each phase, and preparing you to re-enter well.
Built with you in Call 1 — structured around Rest, Replenish, and Refocus, and shaped to your specific season, wiring, and needs.
Call 1 — before your sabbatical begins, to build your plan. Call 2 — at the close of Rest. Call 3 — at the close of Replenish. Call 4 — at the close of Refocus, to prepare you to re-enter well. Each is a genuine conversation, not a script.
At the close of your sabbatical, you capture what God has done — insights, lessons, renewed direction — to hold onto and share with those who journeyed alongside you.
Two companion resources — a structured planning framework and The Winter Season devotional — to prepare your heart and your plan before the sabbatical begins.
Tier 2 · Embedded in Phase 2 — Replenish
A separate, deeper process that goes beyond the coaching calls. While the four coaching calls keep you accountable and on track through each phase, the Life Consultation is a focused two-day experience designed to surface clarity around your Calling, Contribution, or Convergence at your specific life stage.
Duration
2 days
Who you are
Clarity of identity — your values, wiring, and life story.
Where you are going
Calling, Contribution, or Convergence for your life stage.
Your next steps
A 100-Day Plan so clarity becomes concrete action.
A Word for the Journey
"A sabbatical is not a reward for surviving ministry. It is a rhythm built into creation itself — and into the very character of God."
— The Breakthrough People, The Winter Season Devotional
Before you plan a single activity or fill in a single box, your sabbatical needs something different: your heart prepared to receive what God has been waiting to say. That is why every coaching journey begins with the Devotional.
Begin the ConversationYour Coaches
Joel and Grace Lam have guided leaders across cultures and life stages through seasons of transition, clarity, and renewal.
Joel is a certified leadership development coach trained under Dr. Terry Walling's Leader Breakthru framework and shaped by Dr. J. Robert Clinton's leadership emergence theory. He has walked alongside pastors, missionaries, executives, and everyday leaders navigating transition and calling at every stage of life.
Grace brings warmth and a safe presence to the coaching conversation. With experience in member care and personal development, she comes alongside individuals as they name what is truly happening beneath the surface — and find language for what God is doing in the hard seasons.
"This process draws on over 40 years of leadership development research by Dr. J. Robert Clinton, and 30 years of Life and Leadership Coaching by Dr. Terry Walling. We are grateful to be stewards of this work in the hands of everyday leaders."
What Others Have Found
After 17 years in the corporate world, I stepped into a one-year sabbatical in 2023 carrying a deep sense of burnout. Looking back now, I can honestly say that journey became one of the most meaningful seasons of my life — and I'm so grateful I didn't have to walk through it alone.
Joel and Grace journeyed with me with such genuine warmth, compassion, and Godly wisdom, creating a space where I could slow down, listen, and rediscover who God had made me to be. Through our conversations, I gained clarity about my giftings, a renewed sense of direction, and the confidence to move forward with purpose. They also helped me intentionally shape my sabbatical, so each season of the year had meaning rather than simply becoming time away from work.
Even my husband and colleagues have remarked on how much that year changed me — how I've become more grounded and more at peace. I can't recommend their coaching enough.
My sabbatical was one of the most significant seasons of my ministry and Joel's coaching played an important part in that journey. Rather than simply helping me plan my time, he helped me pay attention to what God was doing beneath the surface.
Through thoughtful questions, listening and wise encouragement, he helped me process years of ministry, rediscover healthier rhythms and return with renewed clarity and conviction. I am profoundly thankful for his investment and would gladly recommend him to any leader seeking to steward a sabbatical well.
More voices from people who have walked through rest, replenishment, and refocus with coaching support.
Begin the Conversation
You don't need to have it figured out to reach out. Just tell us a little about where you are — and we'll take it from there.
Every sabbatical coaching journey begins with a no-commitment conversation to explore whether this is the right season and the right fit.
You might also need
If you are navigating a life or ministry transition rather than a sabbatical, our sister site The Unseen Work offers coaching specifically for leaders in the middle of change.
Reach Us Directly
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In the meantime, sit with this question from The Winter Season devotional: "What does your soil look like right now?"
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